How to Find a Certified Sex Therapist in Ontario: Qualifications, Specializations, and Considerations
The importance of finding the right sex therapist for you cannot be understated. Unfortunately, I have seen many clients mistakenly choose therapists that are either unqualified or ill-equipped to support them, causing continued damage to their mental, physical, and emotional health.
Since sex therapy is a specialized field, it’s essential you take your time in choosing a therapist that you can build a safe, trusting relationship with. You also need to know how to spot if they have the appropriate qualifications and experience to support your needs.
This guide will walk you through the key factors to consider when choosing a certified sex therapist in Ontario, including what qualifications to look for and what questions to ask to ensure they are the right fit for you.
Understanding Sex Therapy Certification in Ontario
In Ontario, sex therapy is not a regulated designation. This means that any therapist can claim to be a ‘sex therapist’ without any formal training or experience. Unfortunately, this can be misleading for individuals who are seeking support from a certified sex therapist.
Currently, only two major organizations certify sex therapists in Ontario:
Both organizations have rigorous educational, clinical training, and supervision requirements that ensure therapists are competent in providing specialized sex therapy services.
When choosing your therapist, look for their qualifications from these organizations.
‘Certified Sex Therapist’ vs. ‘Member’ or ‘Associate’ – Why This Matters
When researching a therapist, it’s important to distinguish between a certified professional and a general member of an association. For example, AASECT strictly prohibits its members from implying certification unless they have earned it. According to the AASECT Membership Agreement:
“AASECT members not holding AASECT Certification as a Sexuality Educator, Sexuality Counselor, or Sex Therapist may not list their AASECT membership in any manner, media, or forum that implies any level of certification. Any misrepresentation or misleading of the public as to professional qualifications or certification status could result in denial or termination of membership.”
ASTO, on the other hand, allows members to list their membership even if they have not completed the necessary education and clinical supervision to be a certified sex therapist.
As a potential client, it is important to check whether the individual is a certified sex therapist and not just a member of an association.
ASTO or AASECT: Which Certification Should I Choose?
Both ASTO and AASECT Certified Sex Therapists have undergone comprehensive education and clinical supervision, making them highly qualified to provide sex therapy in Ontario. If a therapist holds certification from either organization, you can be confident in their training.
Once you have confirmed their certification, the next step is to determine whether their expertise aligns with your specific needs.
To find a Certified Sex Therapist, you can explore these directories:
• ASTO Certified Sex Therapist Directory
• AASECT Certified Sex Therapist Directory
How to Choose the Right Certified Sex Therapist for You
All certified sex therapists specialize in different areas. Some may focus on relationship therapy, while others have additional training in non-monogamous relationships, desire discrepancy, menopause, and other concerns.
For example, my specialisms are in prostate cancer and sexual health, autism and sex, and out of control sexual behaviors (consensual). You can see more about my services here.
Here are the steps to follow to find a qualified sex therapist:
Step 1: Look on the directories
See if the therapist appears as a certified sex therapist on the directories. You can see if they are in your area for in-person therapy or if they offer virtual sessions, too.
Step 2: Check out their website
Key things to look for are:
What specialisms they address
Their therapeutic style
If they offer in-person or virtual therapy
The cost of their sessions
If you like what you see, then you can connect with them through their website.
Step 3: Organize a free consultation call
To find the best fit, I recommend scheduling a complimentary consultation with a few potential therapists to ask key questions, such as:
What is your therapeutic approach?
Think about what approaches you may find useful. Be cautious if the therapist doesn’t seem to offer any flexibility in their style, or if they offer a ‘one-size-fits-all’ approach.
What does your practice specialize in?
All certified sex therapists will have specialized training in certain areas. It’s important to check that they have the experience and expertise to support your specific needs.
What training and experience do you have in treating my concerns?
Ensure they have relevant education, clinical supervision, and experience. For example, if you are neurodivergent or kinky, ask what training they have with groups.
What are your fees and availability?
Make sure their schedule and pricing are manageable for you.
Do you offer virtual or in-person therapy?
Consider what format works best for your comfort and accessibility.
What should I expect from the first few sessions?
See if you feel comfortable with what they are outlining. If it feels rushed or rigid, they may not be a good fit.
Any other questions that matter to you!
Trust your instincts and ask anything else that will help you feel confident in your choice.
The most important thing is how you feel during the consultation. Pay attention to whether you feel comfortable, understood, and respected. If you do, the therapist may become a key part of your self-discovery journey.
Taking the next step
Choosing a therapist is a deeply personal decision. Taking the time to research credentials, assess expertise, and have an initial consultation will help you find a therapist who aligns with your needs and goals.
If you believe we may be a good fit, book a consultation call with me today to start your journey toward improved sexual well-being. I look forward to hearing from you.
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